The 17 year old Chrysler (mentioned here) finally died for good. Between a catastrophic failure (kachunk, pshhhhhh, flap flap, flap, and then everything stopped at once) and the "do not resuscitate" order I entered last time we dropped a grand on the thing, it was time.
Of course, we need two cars -- Bullshark and I work in opposite directions and run very different hours. Now we now have TWO car payments, both 100% financed because we have zero savings thanks to law school. Between those payments and daycare... seriously, exorbitant daycare costs that are about to skyrocket when Angelfish starts full time in September. Daycare costs are so high, it sometimes feels like it would pay for me NOT to work. Then I look at the other bills, knowing that I contribute toward paying them, and I realize that its not an option for me to stay home. Why? Mortgage/taxes, Clownfish's tuition (whole year must be paid between July and December, so payments are pretty high right now), student loans.... Plus we have other debt. Old debt that we've been working hard to pay down, plus debt acquired in law school.
Raising the family debt ceiling sucked. But now we have a sweet little commuter car (Hyundai Accent) that can get up to 40 miles per gallon. We'll probably come out ahead... eventually.
I feel you. I read about Tranny Head in Germany with her free daycare for both kids all day and think . . . man, I gotta move to Europe. It's certainly easier for young families in Europe.
ReplyDeleteWait, TH is blogging again? Or is it on Plurk? If so, I gotta get back on Plurk...
ReplyDeleteOof, I feel you. I keep seeing friends of mine (from law school!) deciding to become stay-at-home-moms, and while I have no desire to be a SAHM for any length of time, I am also wistful of the freedom to make that choice. We simply can't afford for me not to work -- not even now, when we DON'T have daycare and the second car payment. Come November we'll have that extra car payment, too; come March or April, expensive daycare also. Sigh.
ReplyDeleteI don't know anything about being a mom, but it sure seems, in life, that knowing that you don't have a choice makes things more difficult! the little fish are so lucky to have you :)
ReplyDeleteTH is blogging? I want to hear about adventures!
ReplyDeleteThis has definitely been something DH and I are dealing with and trying to figure out for next year. Better to just stay home and not have a job, work somewhere else and have to support 2 households. Debt ceiling evaluation will take place in SPring 2012. Not looking forward to it.