Friday, December 23, 2011

Snippets

Senior Partner hears my hacking cough.  Him: "You should try tea with brandy. I may have some in my desk." 
Me:  "Umm... I'll stick with honey, actually.  I'm expecting after all."
Him:  "Oh right. And forget I said anything about the brandy."
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My seven year old son runs with a good crowd. He and two of his friends each checked out a copy of Shel Silverstein's A Light in the Attic from the school library, so they all read it at the same time.  Clownfish has also read "The Missing Piece" and I own pretty much the whole collection, so Clownfish has plenty to keep him busy over the break.
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If you have a last name that is a common enough first name like Xavier, isn't it nuts to give your son a first name that looks like a last name?  There's a kid in my daughter's daycare named the equivalent of Murphy Xavier.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Sick day

Woke up late after being up coughing most of the night. Again. Contemplated taking a half day, going in late, rest a little and doing a little clean up this morning in advance of Christmas. Then I walked into Angelfish's room to find her playing with last night's dinner, which she had thrown up at some point during the night. She's in reasonably good spirits and has no fever, but I guess I'm staying home today... without the rest.

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Coming out redux

Last time I told work I was pregnant, I had a wonderfully inappropriate response from a supervisor.

This time she said:  "Ok... so, its too late now, but after you have this one, you and I have to have a serious discussion about your family planning options."

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Angelfish, almost eleven months

SLEEP!!!  My God glorious glorious SLEEP!  She has finally finally learned to sleep through the night. Ever since Thanksgiving, she has slept from about 7 p.m. through at least 4 a.m. and often as late as 6 a.m.  I am getting more than 4 consecutive hours of sleep at night for the first time since January.  Thank you, thank you for blessed sleep. I know it will all change again in April, so I am grateful to have it now.
That said, she and I have less time together now.  And that makes me sad.

She associates my arrival home with dinner time.  Evening routine is now pretty much dinner, play, bottle, change, bed.  I tend to bathe her in the mornings because we like our evening play time.  Our mornings tend to be a little harried, but not too bad because my commute is much shorter than it was last year.  She gets a little Clownfish play time most mornings while I get dressed.  My getting dressed is pretty much the last thing on the morning "to do" list. I really hope I don't forget that step one day and hop into the car with my hair in a towel and body wrapped in a bathrobe.  Clownfish would probably let me do it, too.  

Angelfish points to people. It makes her happy when you touch her finger with yours and say "E.T."

Snaggletooth is no more.  She cut two more on top.  Her six-tooth smile is still kind of the lop-sided jack-o-lantern variety, and I love it.

They're trying to teach her some baby sign at the daycare center.  They say she's pretty good at it there.  I'm trying to reinforce "more" and "all done" at home.  Occasionally she'll do it, with prompting.  Really.  But more often, her sign for "more" is to yell and slam her hands on the high chair, and "all done" is throwing food on the floor.
Still pulling herself up on furniture, and has finally started to employ some horizontal cruising.  Otherwise, she drops down and crawls and pulls up to a new spot when she needs to move.  Her favorite activities involve banging things together and/or onto tables while standing.

This morning, for the first time, she let me read her a book without having to hold onto/chew another book/toy. She also helped me turn the pages and touched and pointed to things as we went through.

Today, she's got a runny nose and a doctor's appointment because we suspect pinkeye. Yuck. 

Note: This post was written over the course of about two weeks... so you'll see the food stuff is inconsistent as she goes from enjoying new things to tasting stuff & then throwing it because she'd prefer fruit. 

She loves loves to try new food.  Bullshark took us out for Korean food for a treat -- I gave her just about everything that wasn't wicked spicy or raw fish, and she loved it. Sticky rice and dumplings for the win.  We've fed her some Mexican and Italian-type food at home, also successfully.  Thanksgiving food was a huge hit.  Turkey, sweet potatoes, peas, mashed potatoes.... yum.  I took her out to brunch with one of my friends and ordered a Cobb salad, and instead of eating the baby food I brought for her, she pretty much ate everything that makes that salad good -- avocado, boiled egg, cheese, chicken, tomato pieces.  I enjoyed eating the plain Romaine... really.     

The downside of broadening her baby palate is she completely rebels at plain baby oatmeal now.  Sticks out her tongue, spits it out.  Add a little cinnamon, though, and its game on.  Same with plain pasta -- she wants a little tomato sauce or butter & basil.  Also, cheerios have lost some of their appeal, probably because they're boring-flavored.  She'll still eat them, but I have to give her some fruit or something yummy first, and then she'll snack on cheerios begrudgingly while I try to make her lunch or cram some breakfast down my throat.

She's also started to rebel against baby food in general, which stinks because we've taken to relying on one pureed dinner jar a day to ensure she gets protein and veg.  Canned fruit and eggs are pretty much our staples now.  Lately she's rejected most of whatever Bullshark has made for dinner, and I end up improvising.  But I'd rather her have a full belly so she sleeps. Sleep!! 

Also, Bullshark bought some of those overnight super-absorbent diapers because, now that she's not getting a middle of the night diaper change, she wakes up soaked to the skin all over.

Two words:  Epic. Fail.

Wednesday, December 07, 2011

hey, remember when I passed 2 bar exams?

I'm (hopefully) getting admitted to state 2 today.

Provided I can get there in time and pass the interview.

Woo?

Monday, December 05, 2011

For sale

My sister overheard this exchange and felt the need to call me and tell me.  

My Mom, to my Dad:  Did you tell [my maternal uncle, Dad's golfing buddy] about Butterflyfish's big news?
My Dad:  Nah, I didn't mention it.  But I'm sure he knew already.
Mom:  How would he know?
Dad:  Well didn't she put the baby up on eBay?
Mom:  I think you mean the Spacebook.

Sunday, December 04, 2011

MILP #232: The Balancing Act

The Weekly MILP (Moms In the Legal Profession) Roundup is hosted on a rotating basis between PT-LawMom, Butterflyfish, Attorney Work Product and Attorney at Large blogs. We originally rounded up just the moms in law school, but then discovered that those women eventually graduate. Who knew? So now all the moms in the legal field (heh) are represented. We aim for Sunday posts.

A lot of the MILPs were blogging about the work-life balance this week.

  • First, a shout out to Miss K -- congratulations on the birth of Clara Margaret! Why, yes she did have to send work emails from the hospital.
  • Fumbling for Truth.  "How do you possibly juggle a demanding job with two small children?" 
  • Sammie B.  "I always wonder if I'm failing at this parenting thing. I always feel imperfect." 
  • But I do have a law degree... Trying to find the balance through part-time work.
  • Lag Liv.  Adjustments, including the "job, which had been a consistent positive, finally threw me into a brick wall of hours, travel, and (low) morale." (And pictures!)
  • Cowgirl in the City. That is a helluva commute. 
  • Googiebaba. I could not possibly sustain the balance if I had to give up the D&D.
  • Atty Work Product.  Taking on the additional challenge of home cooking.
  • Atty at Large. Family holiday balance
  • SuzieJD. Blog life balance.
  • LC. Picture time
  • WNW Litigator is litigating again
  • Only 3 Years. Plans derailed by kiddo illness
  • Today & Tomorrow. Law school finals
  • GAL for the Job. Representing children, raising children... now gestating! Congrats!!

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Saturday, December 03, 2011

Conversation with one of my favorite Tweeps

butterflyfish1:  Baby kicking, like whoa!
emcpan: Kick back!
butterflyfish1:   I'd kick the baby back if it was the baby outside my tummy, but since its the inside baby, I'm just not flexible enough to kick back.
emcpan:  Put baby shoes on your hands and lightly tap your tummy and then say "now you know how it feels."

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(Links go to her twitter account and blog respectively.)

Friday, December 02, 2011

Compliment

I was trying to explain a really complicated matter to one of the people I work for, and he said that I was brilliant and that I had a great memory for detail.

That made me happy. 

Whoooooa, we're half way there!!!

Twenty weeks today.